family

hello world! Thought I should introduce my brother and sister to you! LOL! My sis just emailed me these photos! I love them alot although i dun usually show it! haha after watching my sister's keeper, it makes me think alot! Watching the love between the siblings in the movie makes me think of mine! Makes me wonder how much I will give for them to live!

Well, we fight alot. HAH. We scream, cry and shout at each other, but at the end, things will always go back to normal and we'll still go to our favourite ice-cream shop called THE DAILY SCOOP as a family!

A family is REAL when there are fights and quarrels, differences are normal, and still come together at the end of the day, simply because we are a family. As contradicting as it sounds, 'fights' are a sign of real relationships. I remember my 'fight' between bff and I, my 'fight' with Janet, and while it was a hard time at first, (fyi, such 'fights' can last for weeks) but i really think I got to know the both of them better and our friendships are stronger than before, because it stood the test! (And, just for those who dun already know, I 'fight' with weijie all the time haha but our 6 year record must count for something right!) On the contrary pretentious relationships are those that pretend everything is fine, when actually its not. So wrt all the hoo-ha thats been going on, here's my two cents worth- we are more real then others think we are, definitely not pretentious, not fake and while things are not back to normal YET, hey, this is just part and parcel of a NORMAL process because it takes time which is why its called a process in the first place anyway. :)