thanks adeline love. haha thanks for bearing w my whining and complaining all the time. and essy and net. haha thanks for being my bestests frens by just being there.
haha and ROYston tan. haha for being extra. but sweeeeeeeeeet. hahaha.
today's cellgrp was about friendship and altho i was initially a lil troubled about who my destiny partners are, but tonite it seems all so clear now. my bestest frens are the ppl who can tolerate my "quirky" as zoe puts it, and irritating moments. True friends are those you can count on to not just say the things you want to hear, but bring out the best in you, even at the risk of losing the friendship. yeah i agree with that.. but i think the way we should do it matters alot. like what ade said..girls usually like to hear nice words and we want people to support our ideas and prefers the "deceiving" approach rather than the blunt approach.
and we are not dumb. plus we are definitely more sensitive such that even if you have to go one round, before you even reach the point to "shoot" us. we know. and yes we know that we may b wrong even if we refuse to admit it.
and this is something i always have to remind myself too. that even tho there are certain things or ideology or characteristics that i do not approve of in my frens' lives or rather in my opinion is not right, there is a smart way and stupid way of letting them noe. and i choose the smart way. haha or rather i try. haha. there is really no point in imposing ur ideas and beliefs onto others head on, bcos it might even backfire. point taken.
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